Never ever say these things after sex

It’s always important to have a little chat after making love. However, just saying anything may not be the solution. While women love to talk and chat, they are usually very sensitive about many things during that moment after ‘finishing’! Men on the hand usually have a weird urge to pass out and get into a slumber.

According to Dr Amanda Denes a sex expert, Oxytocin—also known as the cuddle hormone—is released in the brain during climax and creates the desire to connect with your partner. Testosterone on the other had  is believed to dampen the effects of oxytocin, according to the study. So while her brain is prompting her to open up, your system is slowly slipping into sleep-mode.

It’s thus important to know what to say to her after sex. You might just kill her vibe after all and lose her forever.

1. “That was the best sex I’ve ever had!”

Sure, you may mean well, but comparing her to past partners immediately after she’s just done the deed with you can be a vibe killer. Instead, compliment her on something specific that just happened between the two of you, says Denes. Couldn’t take my eyes off your boobs when you were on top? Can’t get over how good you taste? Let her in on the secrets about herself.

2. “That took longer than usual. You okay?”

Disaster! What is that you just said? Women tend to feel particularly vulnerable after sex, so critiques on her appearance or performance could be really hurtful, says Denes. Instead, talk about her physique, or how sexy she looks at that moment. Better yet, let her know that there’s no place else you’d rather be than with her.

3. “How many times did you get off?” 

Asking this makes it seem like you’re forking compliments on your performance out of her. If you really are interested in a review, ask in a more productive way. For example: “Tell me two things you did like and two things you didn’t like.” That way you can get a genuine reaction to how she’s feeling.

Source: Men’s Health

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