In an honest and emotionally layered conversation on Tusker Malt Conver-Sessions, singer Elijah Kitaka bared his soul, sharing the roots of his musical journey, his heartbreak with the church, and the personal trials that shaped him into the artist and man he is today.
Raised by parents who were both pastors, Kitaka’s early life revolved around faith and spirituality. “I was a drummer in church. Praise and worship were the best part, it grounded me,” he recalls, a soft smile tugging at the edges of his lips. “That’s where my love for music really started.”
But despite being deeply immersed in the church, Kitaka says he began to see cracks in the system. “I left because I saw holes,” he says bluntly. “I didn’t feel like my path was there anymore. I saw some things that broke my heart. I started asking questions, but no one had answers. The more I grew up, the more traumatized I became.”
It wasn’t rebellion, it was a quest for truth. Leaving the church wasn’t a decision he took lightly, but one he felt was necessary for his own growth. “I was so shielded from the world, and when I finally stepped out, I was naive.”
That period of self-discovery came with its own set of challenges, but also blessings. “I have three beautiful children,” he shares warmly. “My firstborn is a boy, I had him when I was 20. The other two are girls, and the youngest is just two months old.”
Fatherhood, especially at such a young age, was a turning point. “When I got my firstborn, I was so excited. But we didn’t really connect with his mum. She was very mature, and I was still figuring myself out.”
Now older and more grounded, Kitaka is intentional about how he raises his kids. “I want them to do what they want—but I also want them to love God. Not forced, just real.”
On the topic of love and relationships, Kitaka confirmed he’s currently dating. “Yes, I’m with someone,” he said, smiling. “We’re good.” When asked about the kissing scenes in his music videos, he revealed that it’s usually the director’s idea, but he always lets his partner know beforehand. “I never want her to be caught off guard. It’s about respect.”
The interview also touched on his artistry and fashion—both of which are as bold and unpredictable as his journey. Kitaka’s musical style is as eclectic as his wardrobe, a blend of soul, Afro-fusion, and unfiltered emotion. “Music has always been how I process things,” he explains. “It’s how I heal.”
Watch the full interview here:
