Do you ever see a group of friends hanging out in a bar or sharing lipgloss in the loos and wish you had a girl squad like them? Or do you listen to mates talking about their best friend from like, forever, and wished you had someone to share your life with who is as close as a sister, but perhaps without the sibling rivalry?
Having a girl squad has become a bit of a status symbol, and it’s natural to feel serious FOMO when you are bombarded with Instagram images of glamorous friends looking like they’ve stepped out of an advertising campaign, living their best life with captions like #BFF, while you are curled up in your fleecy onesie watching repeats of Friends.
When you see celebs like Gigi Hadid and Kendell Jenner with their supermodel girl squad, who would rather forget their Fendi bags than their friends, it’s natural to feel a pang of jealousy or what’s known as friendship envy. But before you beat yourself up about it, friendship envy doesn’t make you a bad person.
Just like how during lockdown, it felt like everyone was making bread and doing Couch to 5K without breaking a sweat, while we were struggling to get out of our PJs before midday, post lockdown, it feels like there is pressure to make up for lost time and go out with partying all the time.
But it’s hard to get yourself out there when you don’t have a wing woman, and the loneliness we felt over lockdown didn’t end once the restrictions were finished.
Social media and celebrities have set some serious friendship goals, but how realistic are they? Ultimately, Instagram only shows a snapshot of people’s lives, but sometimes that picture perfect group can be less girl squad and more Mean Girls.
So why are we so tied by the idea of being part a girl squad even when those relationships become negative? Psychologist Lilly Sabir explained: “Our sense of identity and emotional wellbeing is constructed from the groups we belong to.
If we lack these social connections, it affects our self-esteem. We feel friendship envy because so much of our confidence is gained from us knowing who we ‘belong’ to.
“Whether it’s what you do or who you want to be, it will come from sourcing friends that share and influence your own ideas. If we lack those social connections which also approve parts of our personality, we can feel disappointed and lonely.
“Before social media, no one else knew what a typical Saturday afternoon with friends would look like. Now you see what friends, old class mates, exes are doing and group selfies are the way we show people who we are. This amount of access is creating even more importance around the friends we have and how they shape our identities.”
So what can we do about it? “Identify the triggers, then ask yourself why you feel that way” Lilly added, “ Then set goals to focus that energy onto enhancing your own identity, which will allow you to gain the confidence to engage with others and seek validating friendships.”
Ultimately, being part of a girl squad should be empowering, but if it’s not, it’s better to do an Elsa and let it go. Before seeking validation from others, we need to find it within ourselves and be our own girl squads.
[{"id":81694,"link":"https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/lc-waikiki-uganda-to-unveil-new-season-new-you-collection-this-saturday-at-acacia-mall\/","name":"lc-waikiki-uganda-to-unveil-new-season-new-you-collection-this-saturday-at-acacia-mall","thumbnail":{"url":"https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/LC-Waikiki-Uganda-1.webp","alt":"LC Waikiki Uganda"},"title":"LC Waikiki Uganda to Unveil \"New Season, New You\" Collection This Saturday at Acacia Mall","excerpt":"LC Waikiki is taking things up with this collection","content":"This Saturday, 23rd November 2024, all roads will lead to Acacia Mall as LC Waikiki, the globally renowned fashion powerhouse, prepares to unveil its latest","author":{"name":"satisfashionug","link":"https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/author\/hssentongo\/"},"date":"Nov 20, 2024","dateGMT":"2024-11-20 15:27:23","modifiedDate":"2024-11-21 12:47:29","modifiedDateGMT":"2024-11-21 09:47:29","commentCount":"0","commentStatus":"closed","categories":{"coma":"<a href=\"https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/fashion-news-2\/\" rel=\"category tag\">Fashion News<\/a>","space":"<a href=\"https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/fashion-news-2\/\" rel=\"category tag\">Fashion News<\/a>"},"taxonomies":{"post_tag":"<a href='https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/tag\/lc-waikiki-uganda\/' rel='post_tag'>LC Waikiki Uganda<\/a>"},"readTime":{"min":2,"sec":12},"status":"publish"},{"id":81658,"link":"https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/ikon-awards-return-for-third-edition\/","name":"ikon-awards-return-for-third-edition","thumbnail":{"url":"https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/Ikon-Awards-Return-for-Third-Edition-8-scaled.webp","alt":"Ikon Awards Return for Third Edition"},"title":"Ikon Awards Return for Third Edition","excerpt":"Organised by the Ikon Inspire Foundation, Reach A Hand Uganda and Sauti Plus Media Hub","content":"The stage is set for the grand return of the Ikon Film and Television Awards, as the highly anticipated third edition was officially unveiled on","author":{"name":"satisfashionug","link":"https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/author\/hssentongo\/"},"date":"Nov 19, 2024","dateGMT":"2024-11-19 08:29:41","modifiedDate":"2024-11-19 11:29:43","modifiedDateGMT":"2024-11-19 08:29:43","commentCount":"0","commentStatus":"closed","categories":{"coma":"<a href=\"https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/entertainment\/events\/\" rel=\"category tag\">Events<\/a>","space":"<a href=\"https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/entertainment\/events\/\" rel=\"category tag\">Events<\/a>"},"taxonomies":{"post_tag":"<a href='https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/tag\/ikon-awards\/' rel='post_tag'>Ikon awards<\/a>"},"readTime":{"min":1,"sec":18},"status":"publish"},{"id":81552,"link":"https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/fashioning-the-future-a-fashion-show-at-king-charles-iiis-birthday-celebration-in-uganda\/","name":"fashioning-the-future-a-fashion-show-at-king-charles-iiis-birthday-celebration-in-uganda","thumbnail":{"url":"https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/\u2018Fashioning-the-Future-A-Fashion-Show-at-King-Charles-IIIs-Birthday-Celebration-in-Uganda-SatisfashionUg-57.webp","alt":"\u2018Fashioning the Future\u2019- A Fashion Show at King Charles III\u2019s Birthday Celebration in Uganda SatisfashionUg"},"title":"\u2018Fashioning the Future\u2019- A Fashion Show at King Charles III\u2019s Birthday Celebration in Uganda","excerpt":"The event featured a remarkable fashion showcase, which was curated through the British Council's Creative DNA (CDNA) program.","content":"On Thursday, 14th November 2024, the UK High Commissioner to Uganda, Her Excellency Lisa Chesney MBE, hosted a grand reception at the British High Commission\u2019s","author":{"name":"Hassan Ssentongo","link":"https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/author\/hassan-ssentongo\/"},"date":"Nov 18, 2024","dateGMT":"2024-11-18 10:43:21","modifiedDate":"2024-11-18 15:30:21","modifiedDateGMT":"2024-11-18 12:30:21","commentCount":"0","commentStatus":"closed","categories":{"coma":"<a href=\"https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/fashion\/\" rel=\"category tag\">fashion<\/a>","space":"<a href=\"https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/fashion\/\" rel=\"category tag\">fashion<\/a>"},"taxonomies":{"post_tag":"<a href='https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/tag\/british-council\/' rel='post_tag'>British Council<\/a><a href='https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/tag\/creative-dna-cdna-program\/' rel='post_tag'>Creative DNA (CDNA) program<\/a>"},"readTime":{"min":3,"sec":56},"status":"publish"},{"id":81550,"link":"https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/a-royal-affair-uk-high-commission-hosts-grand-celebration-in-honor-of-king-charles-iiis-birthday\/","name":"a-royal-affair-uk-high-commission-hosts-grand-celebration-in-honor-of-king-charles-iiis-birthday","thumbnail":{"url":"https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/\u2018Fashioning-the-Future-A-Fashion-Show-at-King-Charles-IIIs-Birthday-Celebration-in-Uganda-SatisfashionUg-64.webp","alt":"A Royal Affair: UK High Commission Hosts Grand Celebration in Honor of King Charles III's Birthday"},"title":"A Royal Affair: UK High Commission Hosts Grand Celebration in Honor of King Charles III's Birthday","excerpt":"The King\u2019s Birthday Party is a global celebration held by British High Commissions around the world","content":"On Thursday, 14th November, the UK High Commissioner to Uganda, H.E\u00a0Lisa Chesney\u00a0MBE, hosted a grand reception at her official residence in Nakasero to mark His","author":{"name":"Hassan Ssentongo","link":"https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/author\/hassan-ssentongo\/"},"date":"Nov 17, 2024","dateGMT":"2024-11-17 11:21:52","modifiedDate":"2024-11-18 14:22:08","modifiedDateGMT":"2024-11-18 11:22:08","commentCount":"0","commentStatus":"closed","categories":{"coma":"<a href=\"https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/entertainment\/events\/\" rel=\"category tag\">Events<\/a>","space":"<a href=\"https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/entertainment\/events\/\" rel=\"category tag\">Events<\/a>"},"taxonomies":{"post_tag":"<a href='https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/tag\/king-charles-iii\/' rel='post_tag'>King Charles III<\/a><a href='https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/tag\/uk-high-commission\/' rel='post_tag'>UK High Commission<\/a>"},"readTime":{"min":1,"sec":32},"status":"publish"},{"id":81527,"link":"https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/february-by-serwaa-unveils-new-collection-with-a-rebirth-of-s%c9%9bwaa-brand\/","name":"february-by-serwaa-unveils-new-collection-with-a-rebirth-of-s%c9%9bwaa-brand","thumbnail":{"url":"https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/February-by-Serwaa-Unveils-New-Collection-with-a-Rebirth-of-\u2018S\u0190WAA-Brand.webp","alt":"February by Serwaa Unveils New Collection with a Rebirth of \u2018S\u0190WAA\u2019 Brand"},"title":"February by Serwaa Unveils New Collection with a Rebirth of \u2018S\u0190WAA\u2019 Brand","excerpt":"","content":"February by Serwaa is thrilled to announce the launch of S\u0190WAA with the debut of \u2018Ahwenepa Nkasa\u2019 Transitional Collection. S\u0190WAA is a woman who has","author":{"name":"satisfashionug","link":"https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/author\/hssentongo\/"},"date":"Nov 16, 2024","dateGMT":"2024-11-16 16:13:45","modifiedDate":"2024-11-16 19:13:47","modifiedDateGMT":"2024-11-16 16:13:47","commentCount":"0","commentStatus":"closed","categories":{"coma":"<a href=\"https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/fashion\/fashion-collections\/\" rel=\"category tag\">Fashion Collections<\/a>","space":"<a href=\"https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/fashion\/fashion-collections\/\" rel=\"category tag\">Fashion Collections<\/a>"},"taxonomies":{"post_tag":"<a href='https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/tag\/february-by-serwaa\/' rel='post_tag'>February by Serwaa<\/a>"},"readTime":{"min":2,"sec":8},"status":"publish"},{"id":81461,"link":"https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/isaac-ssemakadde-doesnt-have-all-the-answers-but-he-thinks-we-do\/","name":"isaac-ssemakadde-doesnt-have-all-the-answers-but-he-thinks-we-do","thumbnail":{"url":"https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/SatisfashionUG-Novemebr-2024-Cover.webp","alt":"SatisfashionUG Novemebr 2024 Cover"},"title":"Isaac Ssemakadde Doesn\u2019t Have all the Answers, but He Thinks we do","excerpt":"On Uganda Law Society, the legal profession, his unconventional personal style, and more!","content":"I\u2019m not going to lie\u2014while I\u2019d heard of the Uganda Law Society (ULS), I didn\u2019t think it concerned me. I assumed it was a body","author":{"name":"Anne Kirya","link":"https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/author\/annakirya\/"},"date":"Nov 16, 2024","dateGMT":"2024-11-15 21:00:00","modifiedDate":"2024-11-16 20:21:36","modifiedDateGMT":"2024-11-16 17:21:36","commentCount":"2","commentStatus":"open","categories":{"coma":"<a href=\"https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/the-november-2024-issue\/\" rel=\"category tag\">The November 2024 Issue<\/a>","space":"<a href=\"https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/the-november-2024-issue\/\" rel=\"category tag\">The November 2024 Issue<\/a>"},"taxonomies":{"post_tag":"<a href='https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/tag\/isaac-ssemakadde\/' rel='post_tag'>Isaac Ssemakadde<\/a><a href='https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/tag\/uls\/' rel='post_tag'>ULS<\/a>"},"readTime":{"min":11,"sec":18},"status":"publish"},{"id":81450,"link":"https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/reach-a-hand-uganda-holds-launches-new-project-to-empower-young-aspiring-female-filmmakers\/","name":"reach-a-hand-uganda-holds-launches-new-project-to-empower-young-aspiring-female-filmmakers","thumbnail":{"url":"https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/Reach-a-Hand-Uganda-Holds-Launches-New-Project-to-Empower-Young-Aspiring-Female-Filmmakers-1.webp","alt":"Reach a Hand Uganda Holds Launches New Project to Empower Young Aspiring Female Filmmakers"},"title":"Reach a Hand Uganda Holds Launches New Project to Empower Young Aspiring Female Filmmakers","excerpt":"","content":"Reach a Hand Uganda (RAHU) in partnership with Sauti Plus Media Hub have today launched the Leesu FemPower Project that is dedicated to uplifting and","author":{"name":"satisfashionug","link":"https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/author\/hssentongo\/"},"date":"Nov 15, 2024","dateGMT":"2024-11-15 06:12:40","modifiedDate":"2024-11-15 09:12:41","modifiedDateGMT":"2024-11-15 06:12:41","commentCount":"0","commentStatus":"closed","categories":{"coma":"<a href=\"https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/entertainment\/events\/\" rel=\"category tag\">Events<\/a>","space":"<a href=\"https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/entertainment\/events\/\" rel=\"category tag\">Events<\/a>"},"taxonomies":{"post_tag":"<a href='https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/tag\/reach-a-hand-uganda\/' rel='post_tag'>Reach a Hand Uganda<\/a>"},"readTime":{"min":2,"sec":21},"status":"publish"},{"id":81387,"link":"https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/a-love-worth-the-wait-mami-deb-micheals-wedding-in-the-maldives-was-a-dream-come-true\/","name":"a-love-worth-the-wait-mami-deb-micheals-wedding-in-the-maldives-was-a-dream-come-true","thumbnail":{"url":"https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/Deborah-Mami-Deb-Micheal-wedding-in-the-Maldives-3.webp","alt":"Deborah (Mami Deb) & Micheal wedding in the Maldives"},"title":"A Love Worth the Wait: Mami Deb & Michael's Wedding in the Maldives Was a Dream Come True","excerpt":"Their tropical wedding was nothing short of magical","content":"Deborah and Michael\u2019s love story began in the UK, where Deborah had moved from Uganda years earlier. While working at an elderly care home, she","author":{"name":"Isa King","link":"https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/author\/isa\/"},"date":"Nov 13, 2024","dateGMT":"2024-11-13 08:34:45","modifiedDate":"2024-11-13 12:41:32","modifiedDateGMT":"2024-11-13 09:41:32","commentCount":"0","commentStatus":"closed","categories":{"coma":"<a href=\"https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/weddings\/\" rel=\"category tag\">Satisfashion UG Weddings<\/a>","space":"<a href=\"https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/weddings\/\" rel=\"category tag\">Satisfashion UG Weddings<\/a>"},"taxonomies":{"post_tag":"<a href='https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/tag\/destination-wedding\/' rel='post_tag'>Destination Wedding<\/a><a href='https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/tag\/mami-deb\/' rel='post_tag'>Mami Deb<\/a><a href='https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/tag\/wedding\/' rel='post_tag'>Wedding<\/a>"},"readTime":{"min":1,"sec":16},"status":"publish"},{"id":81337,"link":"https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/sheebah-embraces-new-age-and-motherhood-in-purple-elegance\/","name":"sheebah-embraces-new-age-and-motherhood-in-purple-elegance","thumbnail":{"url":"https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/Sheebah-Karungi-Birthday-Photoshoot-2024.webp","alt":"Sheebah Karungi Birthday Photoshoot 2024"},"title":"Sheebah Celebrates New Age and Motherhood in Pastel Elegance","excerpt":"A heartwarming photoshoot that also doubles as a maternity shoot","content":"Sheebah celebrates her birthday with a heartwarming photoshoot that also doubles as a maternity shoot for her first child. She radiates elegance in a pastel","author":{"name":"Isa King","link":"https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/author\/isa\/"},"date":"Nov 11, 2024","dateGMT":"2024-11-11 12:46:40","modifiedDate":"2024-11-11 15:49:00","modifiedDateGMT":"2024-11-11 12:49:00","commentCount":"0","commentStatus":"closed","categories":{"coma":"<a href=\"https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/fashion-photography\/\" rel=\"category tag\">Fashion Photography<\/a>","space":"<a href=\"https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/fashion-photography\/\" rel=\"category tag\">Fashion Photography<\/a>"},"taxonomies":{"post_tag":"<a href='https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/tag\/sheebah-karungi\/' rel='post_tag'>Sheebah Karungi<\/a>"},"readTime":{"min":0,"sec":43},"status":"publish"},{"id":81295,"link":"https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/uganda-waragi-lemon-and-ginger-and-bell-citrus-to-sponsor-the-noise-nation-festival-featuring-dexta-daps-this-december\/","name":"uganda-waragi-lemon-and-ginger-and-bell-citrus-to-sponsor-the-noise-nation-festival-featuring-dexta-daps-this-december","thumbnail":{"url":"https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/Noise-Nation-Festival-2024-1.webp","alt":"Uganda Waragi Lemon and Ginger and Bell Citrus to Sponsor the Noise Nation Festival"},"title":"Uganda Waragi Lemon and Ginger and Bell Citrus to Sponsor the Noise Nation Festival, Featuring Dexta Daps this December","excerpt":"Uganda\u2019s premier cultural and music event","content":"Uganda Breweries (UBL), through its iconic brands Uganda Waragi Lemon and Ginger and Bell Citrus, is proud to announce its sponsorship of the Noise Nation","author":{"name":"Isa King","link":"https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/author\/isa\/"},"date":"Nov 7, 2024","dateGMT":"2024-11-07 08:48:08","modifiedDate":"2024-11-11 15:38:35","modifiedDateGMT":"2024-11-11 12:38:35","commentCount":"0","commentStatus":"closed","categories":{"coma":"<a href=\"https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/entertainment\/events\/\" rel=\"category tag\">Events<\/a>","space":"<a href=\"https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/entertainment\/events\/\" rel=\"category tag\">Events<\/a>"},"taxonomies":{"post_tag":"<a href='https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/tag\/noise-nation-festival\/' rel='post_tag'>Noise Nation Festival<\/a>"},"readTime":{"min":2,"sec":8},"status":"publish"},{"id":81271,"link":"https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/stakeholders-demand-dedicated-ministry-for-ugandas-culture-and-creative-industries\/","name":"stakeholders-demand-dedicated-ministry-for-ugandas-culture-and-creative-industries","thumbnail":{"url":"https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/Ugandas-creative-sector-2.webp","alt":"Creatives, lawmakers, and policy leaders gather at Hilton Hotel, Kampala, to discuss the future of Uganda's creative sector."},"title":"Stakeholders Demand Dedicated Ministry for Uganda's Culture and Creative Industries","excerpt":"Creatives, lawmakers, and policy leaders gather at Hilton Hotel, Kampala, to discuss the future of Uganda's creative sector.","content":"On October 24, 2024, stakeholders from Uganda's arts, fashion, music, and media sectors convened at the Hilton Hotel in Kampala to discuss the draft National","author":{"name":"SatisfashionUG Team","link":"https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/author\/abeka-moses\/"},"date":"Nov 4, 2024","dateGMT":"2024-11-04 14:24:47","modifiedDate":"2024-11-04 17:37:41","modifiedDateGMT":"2024-11-04 14:37:41","commentCount":"0","commentStatus":"closed","categories":{"coma":"<a href=\"https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/entertainment\/events\/\" rel=\"category tag\">Events<\/a>","space":"<a href=\"https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/entertainment\/events\/\" rel=\"category tag\">Events<\/a>"},"taxonomies":{"post_tag":"<a href='https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/tag\/uganda-parliamentary-forum\/' rel='post_tag'>Uganda Parliamentary Forum<\/a>"},"readTime":{"min":2,"sec":21},"status":"publish"},{"id":81239,"link":"https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/sweet-melodies-roasted-meat-and-bell-highlight-the-soul-on-strings-edition-of-roast-and-rhyme\/","name":"sweet-melodies-roasted-meat-and-bell-highlight-the-soul-on-strings-edition-of-roast-and-rhyme","thumbnail":{"url":"https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/soul-on-strings-edition-of-Roast-and-Rhyme-21.webp","alt":""},"title":"Sweet Melodies, Roasted meat and Bell Highlight the Soul on Strings Edition of Roast and Rhyme","excerpt":"Encompassing live music performances, roasting meat, and ultimate enjoyments","content":"The Soul on Strings edition of the Bell Lager sponsored Roast and Rhyme reinforced the picnic DNA of the experience, encompassing spectacular live music performances,","author":{"name":"Isa King","link":"https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/author\/isa\/"},"date":"Nov 4, 2024","dateGMT":"2024-11-04 09:41:31","modifiedDate":"2024-11-04 12:41:33","modifiedDateGMT":"2024-11-04 09:41:33","commentCount":"0","commentStatus":"closed","categories":{"coma":"<a href=\"https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/entertainment\/events\/\" rel=\"category tag\">Events<\/a>","space":"<a href=\"https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/entertainment\/events\/\" rel=\"category tag\">Events<\/a>"},"taxonomies":{"post_tag":"<a href='https:\/\/satisfashionug.com\/tag\/roast-and-rhyme\/' rel='post_tag'>roast and rhyme<\/a>"},"readTime":{"min":1,"sec":31},"status":"publish"}]
0 comments